Vasectomy.

[Trip]

Originally Posted by Triple

I would have to buy her out of the house, she wouldn't just sign it over to me after contributing to the mortgage herself these past two years. I can't afford to do that.

I may make it sound like I want out of the relationship, but that isn't necessarily the case. All of the things I love about her are what convinced me to go through with the marriage. Having kids is going too far, however.

In her defense, she knows we aren't ready right now. She wants a kid in two to three years. I'm met with anger and tears when I remind her that I never want children, so now when she starts in with the "when-we-have-a-baby-this, when-we-have-a-baby-that," I just reply, "we have dogs."

Think you are screwed dude. No good way around it. You can either buy some more time with her or let the shit hit the fan soon. Then there is the just cave into her demands, but that's no life for you either. It's a shame no matter how you look at it.