Horrible Day :(

[M1$3|2]

Originally Posted by DLIT

I say you pistol whip him with his own gun. HILARIOUS.

Hell yeah, do that and tell us what it's like to pistol whip someone. I've always wondered what it's like to hit someone upside the head with a pistol.

[VatorMan]

Why do women always date assholes and then wonder why the guy is well.....AN ASSHOLE.

Choose your next partner wisely.

[Dave]

m&m get the heck out of there and never look back

[neebelung]

Originally Posted by VatorMan

Why do women always date assholes and then wonder why the guy is well.....AN ASSHOLE.

Choose your next partner wisely.

That goes both ways. I know plenty of good guys who choose asshole women.

[Smittie61984]

Originally Posted by VatorMan

Why do women always date assholes and then wonder why the guy is well.....AN ASSHOLE.
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I'm a little late with this thread but oh well.

I think they love the drama. I use to treat woman like crap when I was a teenager an I had them all over me. Once I got older I quick treating them like crap and like they were thoughtful emotional human beings who deserved to be treated with respect. They started running over me, ignoring me, or worste make me their "Gay Best Friend".

Here is something to ponder too. Next time you start dating a girl and she tries to get you to meet this guy who is "Just a friend". Well she treats him like "Just a Friend" but that guy truly loves that girl and would do anything to make her happy. Including pretending to like you despite he knows you aren't the right guy for her. However becuase he does love her with all of his heart she will never treat him more than a gay best friend. Basically don't worry about him.

Which made me think. MM. This guy who is your Best Friend and is helping you through this. Why not him?

[NONE_too_SOFT]

how the fuck do you girls meet these crazy ass guys? seriously. do you go look under rocks and dig holes and shit?

god damn, people just DO NOT act this way normally. get your priorities straight, if this is the type of guy you're dating you might need to work on YOU for a while and forget about relationships.

[LaFemmes]

The greatest single cause of a poor self-image is the absence of unconditional love.

My thoughts are for you to get through this with as little heartache as passable.

[itgirl]

so you went from a physically abusive guy to a verbally abusive guy? as stated above, you need to not date for a bit and take time to realize that you deserve much better than that. but definately get out! that isn't love, no matter what he says. i wish you the best.

[Bassplayer]

Originally Posted by Mistress Maygin

Sorry, I just really need to vent about this. Today has been horrible.

The boyfriend and I have been having issues lately and yesterday it all came to a head. He blamed me for his having seizures and ruining his birthday (apparently because of something I did in my sleep?) and basically called me every name in the book attempting to make me feel like shit.

Today I found out that he decided to talk shit to some of my oldest friends, who have thus turned on me as a result.

I came home today and started to put my things in the other room. He informed me that as I am a psychotic whore, he had me taken off the lease and to have my things out of the house immediately. He has no problem with me living on the street, calling me a whore, and ruining my friendships, but still claims he loves me?!?!

I'm sitting in my living room crying to my mom and one of my best friends (who is thankfully letting me stay at his house until I can find a place). I'm afraid to leave my things because I know he will try to destroy or steal them. But I can't stay here, I don't feel safe. He intentionally left his guns sitting on the chairs in the living room, my guess is so I feel intimidated.

My mom is coming over and we are going to call the cops so they can take an inventory of my belongings to be sure that he doesn't do anything stupid. I never thought that it would come to this. It's sad to think this person may even be worse than the abusive guy I was with. He has absolutely lost his shit. He hasn't hit me, but I wouldn't put it past him. He keeps screaming at me, standing two inches from me and refuses to back up when I tell him to. And he blocks my way in and out of rooms. It's very threatening.

I have way too much stuff to just pack up and leave tonight. It feels so dramatic to call the cops, but I know it's the only way to make sure my things are safe. I'm worried about Monty. Taking him means leaving a lot of other things behind, but I have to do it. My mom is letting Monty stay at her house for now, which is good if I can't have him at my friend's.

I feel dizzy and nauseated. I don't know what I did to deserve any of this. I'm such a failure at life and relationships. If it weren't for the fact that I have a great job and wonderful friends (the real ones), I would feel pretty darn helpless right now. I'm honestly surprised this hasn't sent me into a bipolar episode. But I don't kid myself, I'm sure one is lurking.

I'm so.... disappointed in this entire situation. I apologize for using this board to vent. Please don't use this as an opportunity to bash me, but if you have any constructive comments they are all much appreciated. Like if anyone in the South Florida area knows of inexpensive, decent apartments I can take a look at.... Or if anyone else has had to deal with this sort of thing before and has some helpful advice?

Oh, and to make it bike related: Due to my having to leave and find a place ASAP that will cost at least 5 times more than what I pay now, my getting a bike will likely be delayed

Im sorry, i hope everything works out for you.

[GearGrabinGuy]

Ohh women....

You all know how to pick em when your younger.