past few months have been rough

Dova80 · 03-13-2009, 01:22 AM

They have been a bit rough, my best friends uncle passed, his father passed, and now my uncle is in the ICU with what has been given a 50/50 shot, (I figure more of a 70/30 in the negative) for living. For some reason this has caused me to want a family more than ever but also gives me a terrible feeling that I will pass with out having really lived life(I.E. no wife, no kids, etc...)

I just want you all to take a minute realize how special your family really is, how insignificant problems really are, and what life means to you.

Adeptus_Minor · 03-13-2009, 02:01 AM

Condolences on the losses of those close to you and the illness of your uncle.
Be with the family you have, and live life every day you can.

Porkchop · 03-13-2009, 02:13 AM

To be human.....

rogue · 03-13-2009, 02:14 AM

I'm sorry, Dova. Your family are in my thoughts.

You're a really good guy, Dova, with a huge heart. There is a lucky woman out there for you.

If you ever need to talk, and not just drunken dialing, I'm always here.

Dragonpaco · 03-13-2009, 07:56 AM

and if you ever need to drunk dial someone... i'm here.

condolences bro.

CrazyKell · 03-13-2009, 09:53 AM

I'm so sorry. The pieman sends his condolences.

(I hope that made you smile).

Well....we could always get hitched and do that whole thing but...you won't take me as I am.

Mr Lefty · 03-13-2009, 07:12 PM

Hey bro... I know what you mean... But just because you haven't gotten all you wanted or expected.. Doesn't make your life less fulfilling... Don't get caught up in what you want so much you forget to enjoy what you have. I'm nowhere near where I wanted or expected to be at my age... And for a while got really bummed that I was so far away it seemed... But the fact is.. The harder you worry about it and try and change it.... The only thing that you get is more opportunities lost.

I hope your fortune changes... Both with your loved ones and your love life...

Dova80 · 03-13-2009, 10:30 PM

Well gentlemen my uncle passed away this morning, under the conditions I would say its probably the best thing that could have happened.

For those of us that have family tell them you love them, and spend a few extra minutes and express it.

rogue · 03-13-2009, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Dova80

Well gentlemen my uncle passed away this morning, under the conditions I would say its probably the best thing that could have happened.

For those of us that have family tell them you love them, and spend a few extra minutes and express it.

My condolences, Dove. Your family are still in my thoughts. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here.

2up · 03-13-2009, 10:36 PM

Sorry to hear about this Chad. Take care of yourself.

03-13-2009, 01:22 AM	#1
Dova80 Canyon Carver Join Date: Nov 2008 Moto: MV Agusta Posts: 320	past few months have been rough They have been a bit rough, my best friends uncle passed, his father passed, and now my uncle is in the ICU with what has been given a 50/50 shot, (I figure more of a 70/30 in the negative) for living. For some reason this has caused me to want a family more than ever but also gives me a terrible feeling that I will pass with out having really lived life(I.E. no wife, no kids, etc...) I just want you all to take a minute realize how special your family really is, how insignificant problems really are, and what life means to you. __________________ I do not avoid women...but I do deny them my essence. We can make assumptions all day, and you know what they say about assuming. It means you're a fucking moron.

03-13-2009, 02:01 AM	#2
Adeptus_Minor Hopster Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Austin, TX Moto: 2009 Buell 1125R Posts: 4,743	Condolences on the losses of those close to you and the illness of your uncle. Be with the family you have, and live life every day you can. __________________ “Well, obviously before; after was all gendarmes and dick stitches.”

03-13-2009, 02:13 AM	#3
Porkchop 125GP Champion Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Worthington, OH Moto: Empty Garage Posts: 3,418	To be human..... __________________ *Coming soon? 2010 Ducati Monster 696 - Sold 1984 Honda VF500F - Sold 1999 Yamaha R6 - Sold

03-13-2009, 10:30 PM	#8
Dova80 Canyon Carver Join Date: Nov 2008 Moto: MV Agusta Posts: 320	Well gentlemen my uncle passed away this morning, under the conditions I would say its probably the best thing that could have happened. For those of us that have family tell them you love them, and spend a few extra minutes and express it. __________________ I do not avoid women...but I do deny them my essence. We can make assumptions all day, and you know what they say about assuming. It means you're a fucking moron.

03-13-2009, 09:53 AM	#6
CrazyKell Vrooom Join Date: Nov 2008 Moto: 06 ZX6R Posts: 4,427	I'm so sorry. The pieman sends his condolences. (I hope that made you smile). Well....we could always get hitched and do that whole thing but...you won't take me as I am.

03-13-2009, 07:12 PM	#7
Mr Lefty TWFix Legend Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Denver CO Moto: 01 BMW F650GS Dakar Posts: 15,677	Hey bro... I know what you mean... But just because you haven't gotten all you wanted or expected.. Doesn't make your life less fulfilling... Don't get caught up in what you want so much you forget to enjoy what you have. I'm nowhere near where I wanted or expected to be at my age... And for a while got really bummed that I was so far away it seemed... But the fact is.. The harder you worry about it and try and change it.... The only thing that you get is more opportunities lost. I hope your fortune changes... Both with your loved ones and your love life...

03-13-2009, 10:36 PM	#10
2up Waiting for Hello Kitty! Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Arizona Moto: Nothing ATM, which makes me want to cry. Posts: 810	Sorry to hear about this Chad. Take care of yourself.