ok so wedding question

[vickibocc]

Originally Posted by JARVIS518

lets be honest here its not gunna b much of a party

again...stop crying. suck it up. it will be fun..end of story.

[Smittie61984]

Originally Posted by vickibocc

IMO there is a big difference between going to the wedding of a friend, and going to the wedding of your long-term, live-in girlfriend's sister in which your girlfriend is the maid of honor.

I guess if your GF is the maid of honor that's different. But all in all I've never liked weddings. A) it's a reminder to every single person in the room of how much of a loser your are. B) I get the feeling that most people (specifically the females) are getting married to just get married.

But someone like me can never get married. My dog would be rockin up at the alter with me, I'd be dressed casually, and I'd probably beg my fiance to just do it without me.

[vickibocc]

Originally Posted by Smittie61984

I guess if your GF is the maid of honor that's different. But all in all I've never liked weddings. A) it's a reminder to every single person in the room of how much of a loser your are. B) I get the feeling that most people (specifically the females) are getting married to just get married.

But someone like me can never get married. My dog would be rockin up at the alter with me, I'd be dressed casually, and I'd probably beg my fiance to just do it without me.

He's actually tried that. The other night he tried to make a deal that he'll either go to this wedding or to our wedding.

If you don't like weddings that's fine. But you can't refuse to go to any weddings in your entire life. Sometimes you just need to do these things. This is a guy that hasn't been to a wedding since his dad married his step mother over 10 years ago...a woman who he hates by the way. I can ASSURE you that this wedding will be more enjoyable than watching yoru dad marrying a woman you can't stand.

[JARVIS518]

one of the biggest pains about going to this particular wedding is that every single one of vicki's family members is going to ask me "so when are u and vicki getting married?"
im only fucking 21 soon to be 22 im not fucking ready to get married ppl!!

sorry rant off

[JARVIS518]

Originally Posted by vickibocc

He's actually tried that. The other night he tried to make a deal that he'll either go to this wedding or to our wedding.

If you don't like weddings that's fine. But you can't refuse to go to any weddings in your entire life. Sometimes you just need to do these things. This is a guy that hasn't been to a wedding since his dad married his step mother over 10 years ago...a woman who he hates by the way. I can ASSURE you that this wedding will be more enjoyable than watching yoru dad marrying a woman you can't stand.

marriage is a bad idea im not gunna support it for anyone not even myself...
lol

[vickibocc]

Originally Posted by JARVIS518

one of the biggest pains about going to this particular wedding is that every single one of vicki's family members is going to ask me "so when are u and vicki getting married?"
im only fucking 21 soon to be 22 im not fucking ready to get married ppl!!

sorry rant off

I hate to tell you. But until we do get married...it's not going to stop whether we're at a wedding or not. I'm sorry you'll have to go through that. I've tried to make it clear that we're not getting married until we are more stable financially. So I've done all that I can do. I hear it too. As much as I talk about us getting married. I know it's not the time for a while so I would never tell them "Oh I'm just waiting on him" or "You have to ask him", etc.

[JARVIS518]

Originally Posted by vickibocc

I hate to tell you. But until we do get married...it's not going to stop whether we're at a wedding or not. I'm sorry you'll have to go through that. I've tried to make it clear that we're not getting married until we are more stable financially. So I've done all that I can do. I hear it too. As much as I talk about us getting married. I know it's not the time for a while so I would never tell them "Oh I'm just waiting on him" or "You have to ask him", etc.

[vickibocc]

Originally Posted by JARVIS518

Okay well then I'll ask everyone to not bring it up. Deal?

[JARVIS518]

u do that and if anyone asks then i get to leave hows that?

[vickibocc]

nope. I'll do that. But it's beyond my control if people listen. They'll respect my wishes though.