More woman bias

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by CasterTroy

.but the fact that you replied means I must have struck a cord somewhere. (J/K)

Actually, I referenced your TV post just because it was one that got a lot of replies, but I know you're fulla crap ...and





and a post whore so I don't take your posts too seriously

oooh Ninja Edit ehhh? Hahahaha! Shit, I don't take my posts seriously! I'm almost always laughing my ass off when I write these types of posts. The only posts I ever do take seriously, is when I'm trying to help someone with their bike. These "feelings" and "relationship" threads crack me up!!! FWIW I honestly don't believe in the premise that there's only one way to live or to be happy. I've been married and was happy, I lived with three girls and was happy (very happy, in some ways!), I've played the field, had GFs, whatever...happiness is a state of mind and I honestly don't need anything but life and it's sustenance to be happy, seriously. I've been "rich" and I've been poor. I've had more pussy than I knew what to do with and I've had none. For the most part, I've been happy because I choose to be. Period.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by Fleck750

I'm the president of the "pink haters" club.

Well I volunteer to be the President of the pink lovers club!!! Oh yea baby!!!!

[Fleck750]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Well I volunteer to be the President of the pink lovers club!!! Oh yea baby!!!!

Nah, you're the photographer for that club.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by Fleck750

Nah, you're the photographer for that club.

Well, I'm actually the President, photographer, and secretary of that club.

[the chi]

Originally Posted by 101lifts2

Maybe you are misunderstanding what I'm trying to say....and it doesn't include "not worrying about being used or making only myself happy".

If a guy bends over backwards at anything a chick says or wants, then yes it is a recipe for failure because you are tying to send her to some fantasy land that doesn't exist She will only want more down the road. It is human nature. This is why alot of chicks like guys who are dicks....cause they know they have to work to get anything. It is sort of like a self fulfillment thing.

You need to make YOU happy first or change what needs to be done in order to accomplish it. Why people will remain miserable at the total expense of others "happiness" is beyond me.

Ah, much better said! I hear ya now, but I would like to state that if you think your "partner" will do that to you, you are still dealing with the wrong women. Someone can only take advantage of you if you let them.

Yes, there are women who will be like that, as there are men. However when in a stable, loving "partnership" per se, I dont know that I would say either party "bends over backwards". Saying it like that (hello Amorok!) makes it almost seem as if doing something for someone you love is painful or non pleasant. After being with my hubby for more than a year now, I can say that going out of my way or not, I dont find anything I do for him to be unpleasant or something I would not want to do if it makes him happy. But I am not thinking about if it makes me happy, just him, and he does exactly the same for me. There is always a give and take. If we did find it unpleasant, we would tell each other.

But what do I know? I've been divorced, I've dated bad seeds, and now I have the man of my dreams, who gives me everything I could ever want in a partner and tells me I do the same. Maybe I'm just naive.

[askmrjesus]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Hater!!!

Perv!

JC

[pauldun170]

Originally Posted by askmrjesus

Perv!

JC

Guess that makes me a perv too...

[101lifts2]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

.... FWIW I honestly don't believe in the premise that there's only one way to live or to be happy. I've been married and was happy, I lived with three girls and was happy (very happy, in some ways!), I've played the field, had GFs, whatever...happiness is a state of mind and I honestly don't need anything but life and it's sustenance to be happy, seriously. I've been "rich" and I've been poor. I've had more pussy than I knew what to do with and I've had none. For the most part, I've been happy because I choose to be. Period.

I agree...happiness is a state of mind and there is no right or wrong way of life to live in order to accomplish it.

[CasterTroy]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

I bet that you would never disrespect your wife by looking at pictures of other women. Nope. I bet you never look at hot girls walking down the street

she points them out to me when we're together
especially when it's a nice set of


When you're fulfilled the need to look is diminished

[Tmall]

I would just like to point out that 99.9% of people think their mate is the one.

If you didn't think they were something special, you wouldn't be with em. At the same time, some of us have been burned by "the one" so many times, you'd be an idiot to not be very cautious. It may come off as callous to some of you, but experience doesn't lie..