01-11-2010, 07:12 PM | #11 | |
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01-11-2010, 07:24 PM | #12 |
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Remember..."There is no such thing...as a Hot stalker!"
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01-11-2010, 07:33 PM | #13 |
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I've never been on either side of the issue, but I almost understand it. When my ex left me it fucked me up and I had a hard time dealing with it. I wanted her back so bad that I didn't care what it meant. I knew though that even if she decided she wanted us back that it wouldn't be the same, maybe the stalker just doesn't understand that. Also, at the time I didn't think there could be anything as good or better after that, I was really fatalistic about relationships and very bitter. Thank God I got out o that or I never would have met Ulu and had the great relationship we've had the last eight years. Maybe the stalker is just desperate to be happy and believes, mistakenly so, that there's no other way to be happy unless they get you back. Who knows. I really think that loss and heartbreak combined with a little blindness can take love over the top to obssession. Alls I can say is there but from the grace of God...
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01-11-2010, 07:35 PM | #14 |
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I've never understood this either. I'm an "anti-stalker", seriously, I'm the guy women get mad at because they say one negative thing and I never call them again. When it's done, it's done. There are way too many other people in the world for me to put that much effort into one person to be honest. If I call a girl 2 or 3 times and she doesn't return my calls, bang delete!
Although, I will say that sometimes I think that the world is a little quick to label someone a stalker these days. It's like if the woman likes the guy, he can follow her to the ends of the Earth. If she doesn't, he's a stalker if he stops at her work twice even if it's a public place like a restaurant. IMHO a person doesn't hit stalker status until the other person tells them straight out that they don't want anything to do with them and they still pursue. Hints don't really count. |
01-11-2010, 07:38 PM | #15 | |
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01-11-2010, 07:40 PM | #16 | ||
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01-11-2010, 07:54 PM | #17 |
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Thanks, I've seen girls put the "stalker" label on a guy for calling a few times but end up dating a guy that called them 50 times... Huh?
I don't know but it's sometimes funny to me how something like this can back fire in their faces. A lot of men are terrified to pursue a woman anymore for fear of being labeled a stalker. Hell, a lot of your grandfathers would be labeled stalkers if they went after your grandmothers the same way they did back in the day... Oh and for the love of God don't you dare ask out a girl from work! Several people have criticized where we guys "find our women" but the truth is that several of the old relationship pathways are now gone... |
01-11-2010, 08:42 PM | #18 | ||
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01-11-2010, 08:53 PM | #19 |
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stalkers equal psycho. But its a broad genre. Basically they feel like having you will fix or feed some psychological need. These needs run the gamut, so each case is pretty much an individual.
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01-11-2010, 08:54 PM | #20 |
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Shoot them.
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